Find a woman who loves the Lord, loves life, and will love you. And when you find her, pursue her. Don’t be passive. Make the call. Take the first step. Nothing’s going to happen until you do. This is where John Wesley blew it three times. For some reason, he became passive when he found a great woman. That’s not the time to become passive. When you find a woman who loves the Lord and makes your heart beat faster, it’s time to be a man and get with the program.
Steve Farrar, HOW TO RUIN YOUR LIFE BY 40